Relationship Rules

Do you have rules in your relationship?
Do you both practice them?
Is there any point at all in having 'relationship rules' ?


What kind of rules do you have in your relationship?
The number of times you should both have sex part of the rules?
Or the number of times you should meet, hangout?
...................................................................................

 Relationship rules are not really necessary what matters is staying happy and the love you have for each other. The truth is having rules in a relationship does not really work. Individually we should have certain things in mind like being honest, sincere, loyal  and learn to tolerate.

Cheers.

Love in the 21st Century

How does it feel when you love someone?
How do you know you are in love?
These days we see a lot of married people , people in a relationship on the internet, social networks and even in events loving up and we admire such couples. We look upto them and look forward to having such an amazing relationship.
But some of the things we see are not entirely true. As the saying goes you cannot judge a book by its cover.
Loving someone and living with someone is no joke, it's not an easy task. It takes a lot of factors to make a relationship last and grow. Don't be quick to marry someone and only regret later.
The 21st century is the stage where everything is changing and growing rapidly. Science on one side, the entertainment growth and other factors.

The question now is are you happy with the love of your life and is the relationship growing?

In this century relationships crumble each passing day.

'The Last Seen'

Social Networks have a way of causing a lot of issues in relationships.
The last seen on whatsapp is something. Chatting with your boyfriend/girlfriend then he suddenly says he is driving or he needs to do something and you chill till the following day to hear from him and meanwhile you keep checking his last seen and boo is so active and online on whatsapp.
Damn!!!!!!!!!!!! even the blue tick or what colour is it does not help matters at all.
Little things like this end beautiful relationships.
I can remember how I kept checking that last seen shit years back was really crazy.
It can make someone feel unwanted sef.

For those who follow that last seen thing on whatsapp to the latter please put an end to it. Try to stay feeling loved, wanted and cared for.
Cheers

Memoirs of a Single Mom.

Why do guys cheat?

Why do guys cheat????????
This is a question every girl asks herself.
The babe can cook but  he still cheats.
She is all sexy and endowed but he still cheats.
Beautiful and young but he still cheats.
It Is really difficult to comprehend certain things guys do and what they really want. Some guys are blessed with heaven sent ladies but they still cheat.
Many things run through our mind like;
Does he just enjoy having sex with other babes apart from the main chick?
Do guys just enjoy the idea of having a variety ?
Do they just get tired of the same lover?
Or temptations are hard to overcome?
I can go on and on and on ...............

Some guys need to define their love life. Some  are players, some adventurous with women, some get bored easily and others just love girls generally.

Girls are very sensitive and we feel it when a guy cheats but we just try not to accept it.
May your man be yours whether he is a bad ass cheat or not ermmm change is constant.

Cheers

What excuse did he give for not celebrating Valentines Day ?

As I said in my earlier post I totally love the idea of Valentines day.. Ermmm call me a love freak I  agree.. For me it is not overrated infact it is some what underrated.
Please what excuse did he give today?
Impromptu meetings?
An important Occasion?
Under the weather?
????????????????????????
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Sister/ brother are you sure he is the boo? Well yes not everyone celebrates Valentines day but did you say this and make it clear to him/her. Little things do matter and little things go a long long way.

A young pretty girl{Bola) saved up for Valentines Day just to prepare her Boyfriend's favourite dish and the whole idea was to chill indoors with the boo.  I used 'saved up' because the dish was no joke and yes a day's dish lol. But unfortunately for her immediately she got to his place the gateman insisted that his Oga went to work. Choi the babe insisted that she has no time for jokes and it led to a serious argument. (Biko today is Sunday naaaa may God bless that Job o) ...........................

Bola angrily used all the food ingredients to hit the gateman and walked out nearly in tears I have no idea what Bola decided to do next but I hope she did not spend her day sad maybe he is making more money for the two of them ...

Please advise Bola.......


What excuse did he give today????

Happy Valentine's Day

Happy Valentine's Day to my Dearest readers. Valentine's Day is a day to express, show love and sacrifice for all those we love or those around  us. Some got disappointed,  surprised,  embarrassed,  excited, heartbroken etc. Personally I love the whole Valentine's Day idea well maybe because I love to see people in love and happy and in a serious relationship so having  a day like Valentine's Day for me is just a day to reassure someone you love how you feel. Most people don't really know how to show or probably have issues with expressing their emotions. Valentine's Day comes in handy to express oneself.  Some feel that it's overrated or love should be expressed everyday well for me reassurance on a Valentine's Day is not a bad idea.
 Wayo no dey last and you will one day get tired of deceiving  someone with sweet talk  do not  just go about hurting people's feelings or giving mixed feelings it's really painful and it hurts. Its the season of love reassure those around you that you love them and sacrifice for them. Cheers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Do not be like Mira

 j

How far Plans?

A lot happened today with different people preparing for tomorrow.  Some were just unlooking because for them tomorrow will be just another Sunday, same old same old. Long atm queues in anticipation  for tomorrow,  Disappointments with our various fashion designers "I  told you red lace na wine your ear hear' , disappointments with restaurants, hotels, caterers, bakers  and many others. Today the markets were busy too; Lagos island , yaba everyone wants to look glam for tomorrow.

As we celebrate tomorrow  make sure you love yourself first and take it easy whatever whatever case...

lol this made me laugh. I should start creating  my memes

The T.G.I.F Post - Is your boo in formation?

Mbok my sister is your boo in formation?
Is your boo consistent?
Early morning texts?
Good night texts?
Bye bye texts?
I miss you texts?
Just thinking about you texts?
How are you doing texts?
I sent money into your account texts?
And so on and so on.....................................................................
First of all the notion about 'all boys are the same' should be scrapped its not true. There are still sweet guys out there who make their girlfriends happy and in different ways. For the nagging girlfriends if he makes you happy quit nagging asap.
Expressing yourself through text messages or lets say chats is the in thing now and few guys have the time to send consistent messages daily no matter how busy they are and these kind of guys should be acknowledged because truth be told a huge percent of guys can be jerks. It is such a  sweet feeling to feel loved and be loved. Valentines day is fast approaching has he been in formation all through the relationship? Is it time for the big question to pop out?
Be spontaneous.
Stay Lovable.
And be yourself.
Cheers.

Fashion Friday -Palazzo Pants

        Yaaaaaaas Thank God Its Friday.
on fashion Friday I will be talking about palazzo pants. Recently I realised palazzos look good on slim girls too ..
Note: I am not a fashion expert hence I would just say the little I know. Palazzo pants come in different prints, patterns and styles. They come in different kinds of materials too like cotton, chiffon and so on. Palazzo pants bring out this tall, slim, classy look. It is a must have and I for one plan to have a lot of palazzo pants because it makes me look taller. Palazzo pants go well with sleeveless tops or tank tops and even crop tops.

Rocking My palazzo

Pre-Valentine Advice ........

                          Valentines Day is fast approaching and a lot of us are thinking of what to get bae/boo/sugar/darling as a perfect valentines gift. Some of us are even planning a huge proposal . Some will surprise bae with a long expected pregnancy, job promotion  etc. But have we stopped to discuss about certain things disturbing us in our various relationships before valentines day like communication issues, lack of attention, the time factor and so on. Almost all if not all relationships have communication issues. Some of us find it hard to express ourselves and we just shun  things that we do not like in the relationship. Another thing is if bae keeps forming busy or  is just the busy type make the first move who says there is harm in doing that? It only helps to build the relationship.
                   Relationships are quit tough truth be told but its left for us to keep pushing. Continue to make bae happy and stay and stick with bae for the right reasons. As you plan for the perfect valentines gift tell or write a note to bae saying what you want him/her to do or change in the relationship.
Happy Valentines Day in Advance to you all..

And ermmmm for some reason I just keep wishing Vals day was a weekday not a Sunday *hides face* ..

I was so excited to pick my son up from the Day Care

Here are some photos of me and my son after I picked him up from the crèche. I was too excited I had to ask my cousin to take some photos...

My Few Days Working for Melting Moments

Melting Moments is a company that specializes in desserts for different events. The C.E.O Miss Tolu Samaiye  and Miss Anna gave me the great opportunity of working as an Event/ Business Development Manager. I loved my job and I always looked forward to the following day. Even with factors like distance and having to drop my son early in the Day Care so as to be punctual. Working hours (8am-5pm) and on weekends where I had to manage events. Our head office was at Magodo. We were all like family ( Miss Tolu, Miss Anna, Ayobami, Kelvin, Moyo, Destiny, Lola, Oluchi, Miss Patricia and Dexter hehehe Miss Tolu's pet such an adorable creature ) I was so scared of Dexter though he was so playful.
               There is really not much to say but I miss my Melting Moments family so much and I miss the black forest cup cakes too hehehehe.
I still work as a volunteer for MeltingMoments. Yaaaaas I said they are family hehehe
You can follow them on Instagram @mmeventsng and @mmstoresng
Here are some pictures

My Silverbird Vj Auditions

I really have this love for the media, entertainment and fashion. I really had no plans to try the Vj search because of different reasons like I'm a very shy person and I told myself since its an Instagram thing that may have to do with getting people to like your video and I thought of how the whole process can be very tiring hence I laid back. My friend, Omotola ended up giving me ginger that I should give it a try which I did.
         The auditions were on January 8th and  I was so excited because Toke Makinwa was going to be one of the judges I admire her a lot. But unfortunately she did not make it for the auditions. We were over 150 and I met a lot of funny, cool, exciting, interesting, and great people. I met Aramide so cool headed and we just clicked immediately.
           Before the auditions started we were asked to tweet and hashtag silverbirdvjsearch and a few of us got gifts like movie tickets and even consat decoders. I won two movie tickets which Aramide and I used to watch ''The Witch Hunter'' which I did not really enjoy . Thereafter Aramide and I joined the other contestants. There was a group of about 5 guys and one babe who were arguing about Reekado and LilKesh. I joined in the argument and made it clear that I was not a fan of either but I kept insisting that I noticed that Reekado had many fans on Instagram 'Reekaddicts' . They all had different arguments like Lil Kesh has been dropping hit songs, his songs are played in almost all parties and stuff ......... Some felt that something just went wrong and so on...  After the whole Reekado argument I was nicknamed reekaddict. lol well I found myself supporting Reekado alone. And since then I actually turned to a Reekaddict.
Fast forward to the auditions after we all finished the top ten were picked and there was rhis set of guys who kept saying every audition was a hit from protea hotel to oriental and now silverbird galleria and so on. They were so excited to hear the top tenand unfortunately none of them made it.
 Aramide and I did not make  top 10 either and ofcourse we had to take it in good faith (lol) life goes on although I was so sure of myself at a point I did not allow it spoil my shine we all have our time to shine and probably that was not for me. ..........................

Kindly feel free to drop your Comments ...

My 4 Major Throw backs so far in 2016

I woke up reminiscing about how my year has been so far. Life after school got someone thinking hard every step has to be taken very seriously. Hehehehe it gets really crazy when you find yourself staying up all night thinking of how to be great in life...
 My four Major Throw backs are:
1. My SilverbirdVj Search Auditions.

2. My few days  working for Melting Moments.

3. How excited I was to pick my son from Day Care.

4. SylviaHair's Photoshoot.

I will be talking about each throw back separately in different posts.. Watch out for them and drop your comments.

SylviaHair's Photoshoot

Melting moments

After the SylviaHair Photoshoot

Chiamaka, Christiana and I

SylviaHair Photoshoot

 Friday 29/01/2016 was a long, interesting,  exciting photo shoot for Miss Sylvia Nduka C.E.O SylviaHair . It was so nice to finally meet Christiana Kayode a very jovial personality. My namesake Florence made us look so glam and she was so fast in transforming our faces and so professional.  My love for makeup though (lol) .

            The photo shoot started around 11.30am and it ended around 7.40pm.

Feel free to follow @SylviaHair on instagram for all types of authentic human hair.
@berbiedoll , @chimaxhephy and @wathonianyansi the models. Our makeup artist @_firenze_ , our hairstylist and photographer @mannix_o and @salaamjamiu .

Here are some pictures. ........

)

                                                             Chiamaka, Christiana and I

                                                     AfterThe photoshootSelfie